Lots of people enjoy going on courses and discovering new things and understanding more about themselves, experimenting with different ways of doing things, and very often will come away feeling motivated to do some things in a different way. Have you ever felt just a little bit concerned that if you suddenly change what you're doing people around you are going to notice and perhaps judge you unfavourably because of it? You know that old thing where you do something and somebody says: "Oh… been on a training course have you?" Well nobody wants to be on the receiving end of that, do they? So if you've ever been in a situation where you've held yourself back a little bit from trying something new because you're concerned about how people might react, I want you to think about this…